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WaLkAwaY

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FLCON16

ermmm...this could get long, don't know if I want to answer it but I guess I should since people (speedy ) seem to see something between Cydney and I which isn't there ;p

First off as far as friends go I generally don't get along with other guys...the friendships feel very business-like or just reciprocal ego stroking (which I don't like mine touched...I enjoy my modesty). My views/opinions on what would be considered typical "guy things" are seen as heretical ;p and I feel no attachment/attraction(you'll see why this matters).

On the other end of the spectrum I have never had a girlfriend. I have had friendships that have gotten to the point that would be possible but as soon as it seems apparent that a girl would actually sleep with me the friendship falls apart because I get bored and start thinking to much. I kind of thrive on awkward sexual tension which gives part of my mind something to focus on so I can have some degree of impulsiveness instead of over-analyzing everything like I usually do. Its hard for me to build a friendship with someone I don't find attractive for this reason because my mind spends too much time beating the crap out of dead horses and not enough time focusing on the person/relationship. Also it is good if the girl is pretty much unattainable to me because it significantly increases the chance of a longer relationship for reasons previously stated, be it because they are out of my league (Cydney: I'll never be what she wants, I'll never be what she needs, I'd NEVER be able to satisfy her...but that doesn't stop me from loving her) or in a serious relationship already.

Whee! now time for the fun part...qualities/attributes I find attractive. I'm much more attracted to someone I'd be able to call "cute" rather than "sexy." Like most white guys seem to, I have an...inclination towards asian girls (aren't they adorable? ). Umm...other than just a degree of attractiveness it mainly boils down to how they act/think. I typically don't get along with people my own age born in America but with a few exceptions (which get more plentiful as I get older)...This country seems to foster a youthful idealism/arrogance which frankly makes me want to vomit. I tend to be more attracted to older women, immigrants, non-citizen residents, and people who have had their spirits crushed early on. I tend to find many many more art students I feel I can associate with than non-art students. And me being as meek as I am she needs to be pretty outgoing or it will never work. My friends have tried to set me up with meek girls in the past and just nothing happens because no one wants to take a somewhat dominant role.

Maybe this helps clear stuff up? ...or just confused the hell out of you...
 

WaLkAwaY

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SPEEDBUMP

Well.. Okay then lol. I was only giving you shit about Wabbie. Around here we ALL joke around. I could care less if you were bumping uglies. lol

You will find the right girl someday. Jim only had three girlfriends before I demanded he make out with me behind the porn shop. He was 35 when I met him lol.
 

WaLkAwaY

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FLCON16

QUOTE(SWAT_Speedbump @ Oct 18 2007, 05:01 PM)
Well.. Okay then lol. I was only giving you shit about Wabbie. Around here we ALL joke around.

Oh I know, but I guess now people know I'm not gay ^__^


QUOTE(SWAT_Speedbump @ Oct 18 2007, 05:01 PM)
I demanded he make out with me behind the porn shop.

what a romantic story (seriously )
 

WaLkAwaY

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QUOTE(SWAT_Speedbump @ Oct 18 2007, 10:53 AM)
What I find attractive in a person is some hot chick passed out in her back yard in the middle of the night because she couldn't make it to the guest bathroom to puke....
RAAWRRRR!


OMG! and I keep reading them! Here I am getting ready for a real written account of what you guys like and WHAM!
 

WaLkAwaY

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QUOTE(SWAT_Speedbump @ Oct 18 2007, 05:01 PM)
Well.. Okay then lol. I was only giving you shit about Wabbie. Around here we ALL joke around. I could care less if you were bumping uglies. lol

You will find the right girl someday. Jim only had three girlfriends before I demanded he make out with me behind the porn shop. He was 34 when I met him lol.


And she was dresed like she was 12. He picked her up in his squad car!
 

WaLkAwaY

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QUOTE(flcon16 @ Oct 18 2007, 04:18 PM)
be it because they are out of my league (Cydney: I'll never be what she wants, I'll never be what she needs, I'd NEVER be able to satisfy her...but that doesn't stop me from loving her) or in a serious relationship already.


That is sweet and sour! It's not like it is a bad thing because those are your feelings and nobody knows what you are feeling but yourself even if they are in the same situation and all aspects of said situation are the same. But I do not like to think that I make anyone feel that way. If I come across as someone like that then I guess that is something that I need to work on, or anyone needs to work on for that matter. I am out of no ones league it kind of makes me sad that you would think that.
 

WaLkAwaY

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QUOTE(WaLkAwaY @ Oct 18 2007, 05:22 PM)
That is sweet and sour! It's not like it is a bad thing because those are your feelings and nobody knows what you are feeling but yourself even if they are in the same situation and all aspects of said situation are the same. But I do not like to think that I make anyone feel that way. If I come across as someone like that then I guess that is something that I need to work on, or anyone needs to work on for that matter. I am out of no ones league it kind of makes me sad that you would think that.


But do not go over thinking it like I know you will!

Lookie I quoted myself....sweet
 

WaLkAwaY

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FLCON16

QUOTE(WaLkAwaY @ Oct 18 2007, 05:23 PM)
But do not go over thinking it like I know you will!

Lookie I quoted myself....sweet


rofl too late been looking at it for 10 minutes before I hit refresh to see this ;p I'm a forum ninja!


Honestly I didn't mean it in a bad way and I'm sorry if it came off that way...I probably should have been more thorough in how i divided that section up but didn't want to bore everyone, I had written quite a lot already. I didn't mean to figuratively put you on a tier above me I could never reach...if anyone wouldn't care about that stuff it would be you ;p any sting that doesn't remove just figure it's probably my own rationalization...'the hardest thing in the universe to endure is one's self' (*ninja'd from the dune books*)
 

WaLkAwaY

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QUOTE(flcon16 @ Oct 18 2007, 05:55 PM)
rofl too late been looking at it for 10 minutes before I hit refresh to see this ;p I'm a forum ninja!
Honestly I didn't mean it in a bad way and I'm sorry if it came off that way...I probably should have been more thorough in how i divided that section up but didn't want to bore everyone, I had written quite a lot already. I didn't mean to figuratively put you on a tier above me I could never reach...if anyone wouldn't care about that stuff it would be you ;p any sting that doesn't remove just figure it's probably my own rationalization...'the hardest thing in the universe to endure is one's self' (*ninja'd from the dune books*)


No worries. And I wonder if people get paid big bucks to come up with sayings like the dune one.
 

WaLkAwaY

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FLCON16

QUOTE(WaLkAwaY @ Oct 18 2007, 06:01 PM)
No worries. And I wonder if people get paid big bucks to come up with sayings like the dune one.


more people that like the books = more people buy them = ++money so ya o_O The dune books are very quotable ;p